Posts Tagged ‘live united’

Community Support Equals Community Success

Thursday, September 15th, 2011

By now, many of you have met the 2011 Live United Campaign Chair, Scott Heck,  and his alter ego, Scotty Idol. As he showed you a different side of his personality, he asked that everyone do something different FOR someone this year: mentor a child, speak up for education, check on an elderly neighbor, or make a contribution.

Many of us have hopes and dreams; dreams as extravagant as becoming a sports star or as simple as learning a new hobby. Some dreams are more urgent, such as urgent as being able to feed your family and buy warm clothes for a Minnesota winter. Along the way to those dreams, we have met people who have inspired and influenced our path. We have met people who have mentored and guided us along the way.

For many in our community, they are still looking for that inspiration or that mentor; someone who can provide encouragement to a person when they are the most overwhelmed by doubt. Doubt that creeps in at the end of the month, when some parents have to choose between food and warm clothes for their children. Doubt lurking in the classroom, where a student faces obstacles and wonders if they can pass this class, let alone graduate or go to college.

Doubt cripples hopes. Doubt kills dreams. And the only known cure is support; from family, from friends, and from the community.

This is where the United Way and partner organizations step in. Living United, we can conquer doubt, revive dreams, and make tomorrow a better place.

What will YOU differently this year to make a difference in someone’s life?

Who knows. Through helping someone else, you might find the life you change…is your own.

 

Join the United Way at Taste of Rochester this weekend. If you have not yet done so, read Scott Heck’s campaign kick-off letter. Visit the Be the 1 blog for other inspiring stories.

Join the Live United tribe.

Thursday, August 18th, 2011

Low lights flickered off the scarfs and pictures on the wall as group of belly dancers weaved onto the stage. The dancers took turns choosing what motions the entire group would do. First, one dancer would step forward to lead. The rest of the dancers mimic her motions, supporting her through dance. This leader would then step back and another dancer would come up to replace her. All dancers had the opportunity to be in the spot light and the transfer of “power” took place seamlessly on the stage.

This style of dance is referred to as “tribal dance.” The word “tribal” really supported the image I was witnessing on the stage. Each dancer supported the others through movement. It was a communal experience and one which communities of all types could learn from.

Within the realm of volunteerism, too few people step up to take that lead role.  But within a volunteer community, you are not alone. Those around you do not want you to fail. There is a wide support network to help you as you help others.

Think of how much we could accomplish if we all took our chance in the spotlight. You could grow as an individual and also help the community grow as a whole.

Locally, there are plenty of opportunities to take that role. If you want to start small, two or three hours would help Running Start for School distribute backpacks to students August 23, 24, and 25.  With a larger leap, you could apply to the Emerging Leaders in Giving as a Design Team members. Take the volunteer pledge.

Together, we can help support each other and our community. Join the Live United tribe.

You Have Super Powers

Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011

As a kid, did you ever want to be Superman with the ability to fly? Or Batman, a regular guy who had all sorts of cool skills and gadgets? My personal favorites were Wonder Woman and the Flash; I loved that both had the power of speed.

Some days, as we go from one life crisis to another, it seems like super powers would be a great addition to our lives. We get caught up in a mental cycle telling ourselves we are too busy or not important enough to really make a difference. Having super powers would solve all that.

But with these excuses, we sell ourselves short.  You don’t need Bruce Wayne’s money or Superman’s fame.  Simple, everyday moments can be enough to make a big difference in someone else’s life.

We have super powers; each and every one of else.

A friend of mine posted on Facebook about a recent trip through drive-thru with two lanes. He and another car both started to pull forward at the same time. He stopped and let the other car go first. When he reached the window to pay, he found out the other car had paid his bill. That story sprouted wings and not only made his day better, it made mine and a lot of other people’s days a bit brighter.

You never know how far your actions will go. From the person who takes a coffee to a co-worker who is having a bad day to the neighbor who helps out when daycare falls through. No matter how small a gesture we make, we have the super power of making a difference in the lives around us.

How’s that for super powers? You can read about the difference one person can make on Danielle Teal’s blog Bethe1. You can learn how to make a difference in a child’s life through mentoring. Help out a neighbor. Read a book to a child.  Join the Olmsted County United Way and the  local community at the Stuff the Bus Finale and Running with Angels Benefit this Saturday at the Wicked Moose.

There are so many ways, so many places we can fit our skills and talents. If only we would take the time.

That’s the Challenge – Who will you use your super powers on? Who’s life will you make a difference in TODAY?

Help Local Students Get a “Running Start” on School

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

Back-to-school excitement. The cool new backpacks, Trapper Keepers (remember those), and all sort of paper, pens, and pencils. Going shopping and picking things out really got me excited for the new school year.

Looking back now, I wonder how much of that excitement extended into the school year?  Did it also help me mentally feel present and ready to learn?

Many kids in our community don’t necessarily feel the same excitement. Back-to-school can bring stress to a family where school supplies and other needs pinch an already stretched budget. Working with community partners, the Olmsted County United Way has an annual “Running Start for School” campaign where eligible K-12 students receive the school supplies they need to be prepared that first day.

The goal this year is to register 3,094 students to receive school supplies. Any child in Olmsted County who receives free or reduced lunches is eligible to receive school supplies. Students at Longfellow must register by July 15. All other students must register by August 12. You can register a student by calling 507-287-1958.

HOW YOU CAN HELP:

Have some fun. Enjoy these pictures of back-to-school supplies from previous eras. Did you have any of these? What are your favorite back to school memories?

Trapper Keeper

Hot Air Balloon Trapper Keeper

Calculators

Little Professor Calculator

The Superintendent’s Desk

Sunday, June 28th, 2009

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…[T]oo often the hiring and the inevitable firing of the school superintendent is a spectator sport in a community…. – Brian Gallagher, President of United Way of America

 

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When Brian Gallagher made this observation during a panel discussion at the opening general session of the 2008 United Way of America Community Leaders Conference, the response of the other panelists and the audience indicated an all too familiar acquaintance with the fate of school superintendents in many places.

My first thought was, “Apparently, things are rough all over.”

Rich Harwood, the panel’s moderator, observed this is the frequent fate of people to whom communities turn for leadership. Upon whom we bestow – by virtue of election, employment, or nomination – the responsibilities of leadership.

 

Too often, after we turn to these people, especially in times of difficult transformation, we abandon them in the midst of the very changes we have asked them to achieve on our behalf. In the aftermath of difficult decisions we have called upon them to make, we leave them on their own to answer the inevitable opponents to which any change gives rise.

 

Harwood writes in Make Hope Real, that these leaders are “left standing alone naked in the public square just at the moment when they most need us to stand beside them and vouch for their worthiness.” He asks of us,

[W]hen a leader comes under fire, do we step forward to offer our support:

 

• by literally standing beside the individual and vouching for the person’s integrity, even when we do not agree with a particular position?

• by saying clearly that the individual leader is a good person, and that we and others will not stand for scurrilous and mean spirited attacks against such a person?

• by praising an individual leader for taking a tough-minded and principled stand, whether we agree with the person or not?

 

“If we want good leaders,” Harwood concludes, “then we must vow not to abandon them and instead find ways to show our support.”

 

What happens to those who assume positions of leadership is also shared by those who provide leadership in the responsibilities they take on as part of the civic life of a community. These people serve on committees. They meet with neighbors. They convene. They converse. They write. They speak. They stand up. They give their names to the causes in which they believe. They are present to be seen in public gatherings.

 

This leadership assumed by virtue of the positions we accept or the actions in which we engage is open to us all. Doing so entails risk and requires a measure of courage. Gallagher and others on the panel made this clear as they discussed the nature of the transformations contemplated by many communities seeking to advance the common good. 

 

Harwood and Gallagher agree, “Live United” means taking sides. “Making a difference right where we live,” assumes something different is required. “Creating lasting change,” means changing. “Advancing the common good,” declares there is good we hold in common.

 

“Live United” is not a plea to “get along.” It is a call to action that also summons what Harwood describes as the “enemies of the public good – enemies like inertia, cynicism, mechanized responses to human problems, false hope, distorted reality, and superficial efforts to take on real challenges.”

 

We must recognize viciousness in speech as a mask for a deep and abiding indifference – a voice that speaks only of itself and about nothing.

 

“Live United” is something to which we aspire, that comes only as a renewing achievement, and for which we are all accountable to each other. Sometimes – maybe always – it means looking out for each other. Standing up and standing for and standing with.

 

We must return to public spaces for only in public spaces is taking a stand possible – not because we agree, but because we agree to engage in the hope of coming to agreement.

 

“Live United” is a call to action that calls us forth into public places. Public places where we bestow the position of leadership upon some and require acts of leadership from many.

 

Living united, we are part of the change.

 

Dave Beal is Vice-President for Communication and Advocacy at United Way of Olmsted County.

 

Civic Parables

Monday, May 18th, 2009

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Early in 2008, after returning from United Way of America’s Community Leadership Conference, Richard Hardwood, founder and president of the Hardwood Institute for Public Innovation wrote “10 Keys to Living United in America.” 

The ninth key is the inspiration for a new category of our blog.

We must learn to tell stories of hope and change – what might be called civic parables [emphasis added]- so that people can see themselves in public life. But this requires us to reject the usual hype and glossed-over public relations, and instead turn to authentic reflections of people’s journeys around change, including why they started out where they did, how they progressed, what went wrong along the way, and what worked. Then maybe more people will step forward.civicparablestxtbox2

In CIVIC PARABLES we invite people to share their “stories of hope and change.” 

  • We are soliciting contributions from “agents of change” who take the risk of authentic reflection on what change requires of us. 
  • We are inviting your comments that in turn reflect upon the story or extend it by adding a story of your own.

We are mindful of Harwood’s observation that, “Bringing about hope and change was never easy, and there is absolutely no reason to believe that our current time will be any different.” 

We also appreciate his take on what “Live United” means (and what it doesn’t mean).

It would be easy to translate the phrase “Live United” to mean that we all simply want to get along, that we envision a world in which disagreements and tensions do not exist. But such a vision would be naive and deny the realities of public life. For me, “Live United” is not rooted in a utopian vision. Rather, it is a call for each of us to step forward to engage with one another and to do our best to repair breaches in our lives and society.

To repair a breach, it must first be acknowledged – so, we expect some of our civic parables may challenge us – but they aim to inspire more than incite. In any event, civic parables aspire to be about what Hardwood calls, in Making Hope Real, “authentic hope.”

Authentic hope is gained when we tell stories of people striving to improve conditions, even when those stories contain their struggles, even their failings, for then people can see and hear themselves.

We’ve invited our first contributors. Expect to hear from them soon. Speaking for ourselves, we can’t wait.